Spider Fight Continues

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I'm sorry to be so unposty lately. I hope to be back to my usual self before too long.

In the meantime, I have a couple of requests.

This thing with my job has taken an interesting turn, one that is calling for my being a bit more careful. I hope you can help.

Request 1: If you have a link to my blog on your blog (or anywhere), will you make sure that it doesn't list my last name? I'm particularly worried about my married name, as this is what I go by at work. If you could just keep me as Deja, that would be excellent.

Request 2: I hate to do it, because it makes me kind of sad when other people do it, but I need to go private for awhile. Please, PLEASE, leave me a comment if you'd like to still read. Sometimes when people go private I'm too sheepish to ask to be added. Please don't be sheepish. Leave your email address here or shoot me an email as soon as you can. I want to get this privatized in the next few days.

Thanks for your help. Maybe when I'm private I'll feel safe explaining a bit more.

Comments

kathy w. said…
Ditto to the comment I made on your other blog. No sheepishness here.
November 8, 2009 at 9:15 PM
eden said…
i hope all is well - or will soon be well.

please, please, please allow me access. (: andersonneddie@gmail.com

also, i have you listed as "deja & sam" is that okay? or would you just like it to be deja. or i can come up with a code name for you. i'm cool with that.

just let me know.
November 8, 2009 at 11:36 PM
eden said…
ps - remember the two "n"s in the middle. not andersonEddie, but andersonNeddie (i tried eddie first, but it was already taken)
November 8, 2009 at 11:37 PM
Amara said…
OK, once again add me. I want to read.
November 8, 2009 at 11:44 PM
Brad and Erica said…
Please let me keep reading too, Deja! beholland@gmail.com
November 9, 2009 at 12:11 AM
Elise said…
I love you. Please add me to your list of dedicated readers.
November 9, 2009 at 12:20 AM
Deja said…
Eddie: Sam and Deja is fine. I just want to avoid last names.
November 9, 2009 at 8:34 AM
Genevieve Beck said…
Definitely keep me! genevievebeck@gmail.com
Good luck with everything.
November 9, 2009 at 9:46 AM
Annie said…
Add me to your list, please: annephillips711@yahoo.com.
November 9, 2009 at 10:15 AM
Lynn said…
Please add me. I look at your blog every day because I love to keep up with you and your life. I don't have a blog so don't share your name etc. Love you, Aunt Lynn
November 9, 2009 at 10:23 AM
Mike and Emily said…
Pick me, pick me! You have my email address, I presume! Love to you. I hope the fight is going well!
November 9, 2009 at 11:29 AM
Jamie said…
I'd like to still read! jamsau38@gmail.com

...I don't even think I know your married name. I'm lame.
November 9, 2009 at 12:08 PM
Stephanie said…
I want to be included and I'll be sure to take your last name off of my list. Good luck with work.

stephaniekay80@gmail.com
November 9, 2009 at 12:41 PM
Janae @ Bring-Joy said…
I hope I'm cool enough to get on the list. I love keeping tabs on all the goings on in Deja-world!
November 9, 2009 at 1:41 PM
Heather & Matt Fisher said…
heatherhfisher@gmail.com

nice thing about going private is that even if someone has your name listed, the person can't access it without your permission.... good luck with everything, and I'm a fan of private blogs.
November 9, 2009 at 4:25 PM
Kitty said…
Pretty Deja,

I hope that things get better soon. I would love to read your blog and get to know you better.

love and hugs,

Kat

fritzimarie@yahoo.com
November 9, 2009 at 11:40 PM
Clayton Jensen said…
I would love to be included!!
clayto714@yahoo.com
November 10, 2009 at 4:15 PM
Julie Bree said…
Add me too: julieful@gmail.com
November 10, 2009 at 5:00 PM
Emily said…
me too. look at all your fans!
emiweelee@gmail.com
November 10, 2009 at 6:40 PM
Rachel said…
Add me! qofvenar_roche@hotmail.com
November 12, 2009 at 12:19 AM
Terry Earley said…
I have to be included.
November 12, 2009 at 9:23 AM
David and Melanie said…
I want in too!
melanie_brough@yahoo.com
November 12, 2009 at 10:05 PM
Stacy said…
I still want to read! Etherealocean@gmail.com.
November 13, 2009 at 12:26 AM
Alison + Brandon said…
I hope that having a private blog means you will feel free to post snarky things, in the event that someone deserves to be snarked. Even if not, I would still like to read it.

alisonstone@gmail.com
November 13, 2009 at 9:29 PM
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