My visiting-teachee has cancer. (For non-LDS, this means a person at church that I visit once a month and make sure she's okay.)
I know this, even though I technically shouldn't.
She doesn't seem to want people to know. She told me it was a possibility, and then seemed really really bothered that she had.
So, it's not like we're dear friends. I can't just call her and say I'm sorry and what can I do.
She doesn't like scheduled visits, since she never knows how she'll feel.
They don't need meals.
I'm not even sure she likes me.
And yet, my heart aches. I want to be able to DO something. Bring flowers? Bring flowers and leave them on her doorstep? Just pray from afar?
Anyone have any ideas?